Seducing a man doesn’t necessarily mean stealing him from someone else, or convincing him to do something he shouldn’t be doing. It can simply mean sealing a guy’s desire for you, and can be a good way to keep a man (not just get one).
Steps:
1Make him feel appreciated. In studies about why men cheat on their wives, it was found that the reason isn’t sex or attraction; it’s usually that they feel emotionally disconnected from their wives because they feel unappreciated, and they’re drawn to other women who make them feel appreciated.
2Let him help you. You don’t have to play the damsel in distress, but you don’t have to go out of your way to prove you can do everything yourself, either. Most guys these days already know that you’re a perfectly capable human being. So, ask him for his advice on something. Ask him to teach you about one of his interests. Ask him to do something for you that’s easier for him to do that for you to do. Show him that you value his knowledge, talents, and willingness to help.
3Be yourself. No, really. Men are thought to instinctively crave variety. By developing a strong sense of self, with your own distinct personality and flair, you’re appealing to his desire for variety because you’re so different.
4Flirt. Be playful. Wittiness and innuendo can create a lot of sexual tension.
5Play Hard to Get. Make him feel like you really want him, but are “holding back” for one reason or another. WARNING: Some guys don’t like playing games so if you play hard to get a little too well it may work against you.
6Touch him subtly. Look for opportunities to brush your body past him, or to brush your arm past his. When you thank him for something he’s done, gently rest your hand on his arm while you’re talking. If you’re feeling daring, play footsie.
2017-11-10